Stillbirth, TFMR, Perinatal Hospice, Fetal Demise and Infant Loss

WHAT IS BEREAVEMENT PHOTOGRAPHY?

Photography can be an important part of healing after the loss of a baby.  As a professional photographer, I’ve been supporting families facing perinatal loss with documentary photography for more than 10 years.

I offer free photography services to those facing miscarriage, stillbirth/fetal death in utero, TFMR,  or a life-limiting genetic diagnosis during pregnancy at any gestational age.  

Sometimes families reach out to me when their baby has a difficult prognosis even if they may survive. It’s important to me that families who may have a limited time with their child have the opportunity for professional photography without specific limits on the circumstances. 

When families are faced with the decision to have an abortion or terminate their pregnancy for any reason, they may not meet their baby. In planning for these circumstances, they may choose portraits while they are pregnant. 

The service of photography and all of the full-resolution digital images are offered completely without charge. Jill is available to visit most hospitals and home in Anne Arundel County, Howard County, Baltimore City, Baltimore County, Harford County and surrounding areas in central Maryland, northern Virginia and Washington DC.

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In addition to photography, we’ve been creating memory boxes for area hospitals for the last 5 years.

WHAT IS A MEMORY BOX?

At many hospitals, parents who have suffered stillbirth, miscarriage or early infant loss are given a keepsake box to hold their baby’s’ foot prints, photos, hat, outfit and other support items. It’s a place to keep the only tangible items that will touch their baby.
 
In 2016, I learned that the nurses of Johns Hopkins hospital’s labor & delivery unit would be fundraising to purchase memory boxes. I just thought these dedicated nurses already give so much of themselves to the families they serve and I knew I could help take this one thing off their plate. So, I bought 100 simple balsa wood boxes and along with a studio packed full of volunteers, we embellished them by hand with dried flowers and leaves.
 
Since then, we’ve made more than 600 boxes. We’ll be hosting another box-making event as soon as the need arises but first we need the supplies. Since that first batch, we’ve upgraded to beautiful wooden boxes and we’re still decorating them one at a time by hand. We include a number of support items – including miniature teddy bears that might serve as a photo prop or just a small reminder that can live in a parent’s car or desk.
 
Each box costs $30 and our goal is to create 100 boxes at a time to last the hospital a year or more.

 Make a donation now to support families in the Baltimore-Annapolis area by covering the costs of photography and memory box supplies:

Photography, in the context of parents dealing with the loss of a stillborn baby, plays a significant role in the healing process:

  • Acknowledgment of Existence

For parents, photographs serve as tangible evidence that their baby existed. This acknowledgment is crucial for the grieving process, as it allows parents to celebrate the baby’s brief life, however short it may have been. Photographs validate the parents’ experience and the reality of their loss, which is an essential step in healing.

  • Memory Preservation

Photographs become one of the few, if not the only, physical reminders of the baby. They help preserve memories that are precious and fleeting. For many parents, these images are invaluable as they provide a connection to the baby, capturing physical details that might fade over time from memory.

  • Grieving Process

The act of taking photographs can be a part of the grieving process itself. It allows parents to spend time with their baby, saying hello and goodbye in their own time and way. This can be an important ritual that aids in the acceptance of their loss.

  • Sharing and Validation

Photographs can also serve as a means for parents to share their baby with others, helping to validate their grief and the significance of their loss. Sharing photographs can help in creating a support network, as friends and family are better able to understand and empathize with the loss.

  • Therapeutic Outlet

For some parents, the process of taking, viewing, or sharing photographs can be therapeutic. It can provide an outlet for emotions, a way to express grief, and a path to discussing their feelings and experiences. This can be particularly helpful in cases where parents find it difficult to articulate their grief verbally.

  • Legacy Creation

Photographs help in creating a legacy for the baby. They become a part of the family’s history, acknowledging that the baby’s life, however brief, had meaning and impact. This can be comforting to parents as they navigate their grief and seek ways to remember and honor their child.

  • Healing and Hope

Over time, photographs can become a source of comfort and healing, helping parents to remember not only the loss but also the love they have for their baby. They can serve as a reminder of the capacity to survive intense grief and, eventually, find a way to live with loss, perhaps even finding new meanings and sources of hope.

As a photographer who provides professional photography services to parents experiencing the loss of a baby, I am trained to handle such sensitive situations with care, respect, and empathy, underscoring the therapeutic value and importance of photography in the healing process.

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